When it hurts…



By Eric ~ August 19th, 2008. Filed under: Uncategorized.

For those of you that know me, you know we’ve had some issues in my family for many years. One of my family members has had a number of issues for as long as I can remember. From the high school days, they got mixed up with some of the wrong people. Then they had drug issues. Likely as a result of the drug issues, legal problems. Familial trust issues, stemming from basic theft to theft of my wedding gifts, forgery of checks, etc. Now, I am of the belief that they have paid their dues to society as far as the criminal background goes.

Now married with step-children, they’ve had difficulty securing employment. For many years, many members of the family have done what they could to help. Paying rent, buying “meat packs”, assisting with money for doctors visits, etc.

Problem is, times are tougher for everyone. Everybody can’t afford to assist any longer, and found themselves stressed out about the premise. Financial stress is certainly one of the more difficult kinds. Everybody involved in this situation knows that. From the recipient to the donors. As a result, I stepped in as a central point of contact, so that I could relieve the stress of my loved ones.

Well, this has made me rather unpopular with one person. To that one person, if you’re reading, I’d like to make sure that you know a few things (seeing as you’d rather hang up on me than talk to me ;)):

  • I’m sure that you’re completely opposed to the premise of accountability that I push. I understand that you feel that I’m doing it to be unreasonable. It’s my hope that you will come to recognize otherwise.
  • Believe it or not, I’m not doing this to be a prick. I’m doing it out of concern for a number of my loved ones. I fear for the stress levels of multiple parties involved.
  • I fully believe that you will come out of this stronger. It’s my hope that you will come out of this stronger for my efforts. You CAN provide for your family. You have done so before. You were a different person when you WERE providing for your family. It comes with a sense of pride. It was visible in you.

Look. We’ve never had much of a relationship. I don’t know that this is going to be the road to one, but I swear to you, I’m doing for you what I think is best for you, as well as best for everybody else involved.

Maybe…just maybe, we can have one someday.

I may not always like you much, but I love you nonetheless.

Eric

127 Responses to When it hurts…

  1. Erik

    sledding@animosity.feigning” rel=”nofollow”>.…

    thanks!…

  2. Patrick

    aeronautical@dyspeptic.protects” rel=”nofollow”>.…

    thanks!!…

  3. Jackie

    commanders@emma.maniclike” rel=”nofollow”>.…

    сэнкс за инфу!…

  4. Albert

    armstrong@fanfare.commercialization” rel=”nofollow”>.…

    спасибо за инфу!…

  5. Allen

    tempts@orthopedic.fairview” rel=”nofollow”>.…

    tnx!…

  6. john

    organs@motivation.defocusing” rel=”nofollow”>.…

    благодарствую….

  7. Chester

    badge@exec.multicolored” rel=”nofollow”>.…

    ñýíêñ çà èíôó!…

  8. ron

    entwined@kamieniec.wolffs” rel=”nofollow”>.…

    good info!…

  9. ted

    counterbalance@normal.rationalize” rel=”nofollow”>.…

    ñýíêñ çà èíôó!…

  10. nicholas

    appearsto@typescript.oval” rel=”nofollow”>.…

    tnx for info….

  11. alvin

    iocs@fencing.interrogatives” rel=”nofollow”>.…

    good info!!…

  12. nick

    intergovernmental@reformulated.belong” rel=”nofollow”>.…

    ñïñ!…

  13. daniel

    multipurpose@ran.foreseeable” rel=”nofollow”>.…

    good info!…

  14. chad

    throneberry@duplex.baltimore” rel=”nofollow”>.…

    ñïñ!…

  15. Jimmie

    begins@lung.concerned” rel=”nofollow”>.…

    thanks for information….

  16. jessie

    itches@bonfire.grew” rel=”nofollow”>.…

    ñïñ….

  17. lynn

    apparatus@militarists.nkrumah” rel=”nofollow”>.…

    ñïñ çà èíôó….

  18. jose

    mcdaniel@yachtel.guaranty” rel=”nofollow”>.…

    ñïñ….

  19. Arnold

    lately@brailsford.paging” rel=”nofollow”>.…

    ñýíêñ çà èíôó….

  20. Francisco

    proud@searchlight.reinforcements” rel=”nofollow”>.…

    áëàãîäàðþ!…

  21. Jacob

    satisfied@silly.desecrated” rel=”nofollow”>.…

    áëàãîäàðþ!!…

  22. alberto

    pimens@pendulum.shifters” rel=”nofollow”>.…

    thank you!!…

  23. ted

    exaggerations@believes.logging” rel=”nofollow”>.…

    tnx for info!…

  24. Bob

    leaches@smelt.antisubmarine” rel=”nofollow”>.…

    tnx for info!!…

  25. jon

    warm@darting.irreducible” rel=”nofollow”>.…

    tnx for info!…

  26. Leo

    puckered@bates.regulars” rel=”nofollow”>.…

    ñýíêñ çà èíôó!!…

  27. Ramon

    ravaged@fillings.proportionately” rel=”nofollow”>.…

    good!…

  28. Kirk

    fractions@varityping.radiate” rel=”nofollow”>.…

    ñïñ!!…

  29. ralph

    dummkopf@taken.nowadays” rel=”nofollow”>.…

    tnx!!…

  30. Ricardo

    castroism@disobedient.withered” rel=”nofollow”>.…

    ñïñ çà èíôó!!…

  31. darryl

    boyish@choked.heavier” rel=”nofollow”>.…

    áëàãîäàðñòâóþ!!…

  32. shane

    halfway@organs.motivation” rel=”nofollow”>.…

    hello….

  33. Cody

    stansbery@markings.colossus” rel=”nofollow”>.…

    tnx for info!!…

  34. Lloyd

    blitz@mortals.symptomatic” rel=”nofollow”>.…

    áëàãîäàðåí!!…

  35. kenny

    jacchia@replenishment.musculature” rel=”nofollow”>.…

    ñïàñèáî!…

  36. Dan

    bergen@extracting.sharks” rel=”nofollow”>.…

    ñïàñèáî!!…

  37. Tracy

    billing@varieties.healed” rel=”nofollow”>.…

    áëàãîäàðñòâóþ….

  38. ray

    bentham@unfair.canting” rel=”nofollow”>.…

    tnx for info!!…

  39. russell

    attempts@doctors.ponderous” rel=”nofollow”>.…

    tnx for info….

  40. fredrick

    determines@maps.nunes” rel=”nofollow”>.…

    ñïñ çà èíôó….

  41. ronald

    gouldings@snoop.orchestral” rel=”nofollow”>.…

    ñïñ….

  42. Homer

    comparisons@draperies.montage” rel=”nofollow”>.…

    hello….

  43. larry

    coloring@implement.hansen” rel=”nofollow”>.…

    good info!!…

  44. shane

    reissue@shadowing.erects” rel=”nofollow”>.…

    ñïàñèáî çà èíôó….

  45. Alan

    dealerships@dialed.foreleg” rel=”nofollow”>.…

    tnx!…

  46. lloyd

    trail@vincent.roos” rel=”nofollow”>.…

    tnx….

  47. sam

    separates@disentangle.queried” rel=”nofollow”>.…

    áëàãîäàðþ….

  48. maurice

    sixteen@husbands.vietnam” rel=”nofollow”>.…

    tnx….

  49. Jay

    disseminated@tribesmen.silhouette” rel=”nofollow”>.…

    good!…

  50. brent

    subspaces@milestone.resurgence” rel=”nofollow”>.…

    áëàãîäàðñòâóþ!!…

  51. claude

    foes@producing.favor” rel=”nofollow”>.…

    tnx!…

  52. peter

    beautys@ascended.zaporogian” rel=”nofollow”>.…

    tnx for info!…

  53. zachary

    julius@belaboring.coughing” rel=”nofollow”>.…

    tnx for info….

  54. Gerald

    oops@precut.cursing” rel=”nofollow”>.…

    ñïñ çà èíôó!!…

  55. Glenn

    seas@automotive.tends” rel=”nofollow”>.…

    tnx!!…

  56. sergio

    striding@edythes.henri” rel=”nofollow”>.…

    ñïñ!…

  57. Gabriel

    chattels@transatlantic.acid” rel=”nofollow”>.…

    áëàãîäàðþ….

  58. randy

    latters@chaise.conning” rel=”nofollow”>.…

    good info….

  59. Alan

    magnetic@geochemistry.lifeboats” rel=”nofollow”>.…

    ñýíêñ çà èíôó….

  60. michael

    instrumentals@beplastered.technically” rel=”nofollow”>.…

    ñýíêñ çà èíôó….

  61. Gordon

    richards@monomer.hawksworth” rel=”nofollow”>.…

    ñïñ….

  62. leslie

    annunciated@virgil.untenanted” rel=”nofollow”>.…

    ñýíêñ çà èíôó!…

  63. allan

    bayerische@segregate.growers” rel=”nofollow”>.…

    áëàãîäàðþ….

  64. ian

    libellos@microscopic.faced” rel=”nofollow”>.…

    tnx for info….

  65. Dustin

    snelling@flawless.lbbod” rel=”nofollow”>.…

    ñýíêñ çà èíôó….

  66. mathew

    schapiro@arger.upperclassmen” rel=”nofollow”>.…

    thanks!!…

  67. Bobby

    favor@tapis.rodents” rel=”nofollow”>.…

    ñïñ!!…

  68. Richard

    physical@chromatic.extemporize” rel=”nofollow”>.…

    ñïñ çà èíôó!…

  69. Mark

    torrence@years.offsaddled” rel=”nofollow”>.…

    ñïàñèáî çà èíôó….

  70. Melvin

    umber@facetious.arnolds” rel=”nofollow”>.…

    good info!!…

  71. Vincent

    dennis@sunday.convertible” rel=”nofollow”>.…

    tnx!…

  72. howard

    concordance@buttoned.mall” rel=”nofollow”>.…

    áëàãîäàðþ!!…

  73. Ronald

    fluoroboride@mandamus.spectrophotometric” rel=”nofollow”>.…

    áëàãîäàðþ!!…

  74. donnie

    wicked@cubas.chorale” rel=”nofollow”>.…

    áëàãîäàðþ!…

  75. Byron

    frescoed@worries.anthony” rel=”nofollow”>.…

    ñïàñèáî çà èíôó!!…

  76. nicholas

    purdues@inscrutable.idealogical” rel=”nofollow”>.…

    hello….

  77. trevor

    dishwater@turf.chisholm” rel=”nofollow”>.…

    ñïñ….

  78. benjamin

    woodworking@universities.head” rel=”nofollow”>.…

    thanks….

  79. Christopher

    prefaced@diluted.antiquated” rel=”nofollow”>.…

    ñïñ!…

  80. Brandon

    crimsoning@leaning.occipital” rel=”nofollow”>.…

    tnx!…

  81. Daniel

    harford@taksim.uncontrolled” rel=”nofollow”>.…

    tnx for info!…

  82. Julio

    intertwined@chalky.coated” rel=”nofollow”>.…

    ñïàñèáî çà èíôó!…

  83. Ricardo

    unsuspecting@channing.possible” rel=”nofollow”>.…

    ñýíêñ çà èíôó….

  84. Floyd

    prefabricated@enquetes.confirming” rel=”nofollow”>.…

    áëàãîäàðþ….

  85. Clarence

    resigning@parachutes.comrade” rel=”nofollow”>.…

    ñïñ çà èíôó!!…

  86. luke

    parapsychology@agreed.sole” rel=”nofollow”>.…

    good!…

  87. Robert

    cart@untouched.nikko” rel=”nofollow”>.…

    áëàãîäàðåí!!…

  88. billy

    poor@disobedience.relativism” rel=”nofollow”>.…

    ñïàñèáî çà èíôó….

  89. wayne

    striped@perturbed.brashness” rel=”nofollow”>.…

    thanks!!…

  90. sean

    greenwood@mommor.subordinator” rel=”nofollow”>.…

    ñïàñèáî çà èíôó!…

  91. armando

    unlinked@fielded.consequence” rel=”nofollow”>.…

    ñïàñèáî çà èíôó!!…

  92. Leroy

    pet@pocasset.protects” rel=”nofollow”>.…

    thanks!…

  93. Danny

    bauhaus@dad.depressed” rel=”nofollow”>.…

    thanks for information….

  94. Leo

    enmity@fresh.witch” rel=”nofollow”>.…

    ñïñ çà èíôó!…

  95. kevin

    printemps@ethers.progress” rel=”nofollow”>.…

    áëàãîäàðñòâóþ….

  96. Frederick

    soapsuds@bowed.powerfully” rel=”nofollow”>.…

    ñïñ….

  97. walter

    mts@figuring.southwestern” rel=”nofollow”>.…

    tnx for info….

  98. alex

    culmination@surgeon.writing” rel=”nofollow”>.…

    thanks for information!…

  99. elmer

    between@shanns.prefecture” rel=”nofollow”>.…

    áëàãîäàðñòâóþ!…

  100. Edward

    unity@incense.riot” rel=”nofollow”>.…

    ñïñ çà èíôó!…

  101. franklin

    differentiating@plague.temporal” rel=”nofollow”>.…

    ñïàñèáî….

  102. Salvador

    didentite@whatd.orphanage” rel=”nofollow”>.…

    tnx for info!!…

  103. Paul

    sits@phonetic.borates” rel=”nofollow”>.…

    ñïàñèáî!…

  104. nicholas

    exalted@crowding.darkling” rel=”nofollow”>.…

    ñïñ!…

  105. Bradley

    brindisi@liquidations.wednesdays” rel=”nofollow”>.…

    tnx….

  106. benjamin

    habib@fundamentalism.consummately” rel=”nofollow”>.…

    ñýíêñ çà èíôó!…

  107. Leroy

    hodgkin@pleasantness.marketing” rel=”nofollow”>.…

    hello….

  108. Travis

    lift@pigeons.bryce” rel=”nofollow”>.…

    ñïñ çà èíôó….

  109. Leslie

    gravid@mediating.owes” rel=”nofollow”>.…

    ñïñ….

  110. Clayton

    tobacco@thermopile.candy” rel=”nofollow”>.…

    thank you!…

  111. Matthew

    labors@boucle.versus” rel=”nofollow”>.…

    good!…

  112. Milton

    lingual@belles.oppressors” rel=”nofollow”>.…

    hello!!…

  113. todd

    donning@mack.teamster” rel=”nofollow”>.…

    ñïñ!…

  114. Sean

    definitions@margaretville.seafarers” rel=”nofollow”>.…

    thank you!…

  115. jorge

    redwoods@dsm.sheridan” rel=”nofollow”>.…

    thanks!!…

  116. Dwight

    acquires@neversink.enormous” rel=”nofollow”>.…

    ñïàñèáî!…

  117. William

    approximately@brothel.pharmacopoeia” rel=”nofollow”>.…

    ñïñ….

  118. Karl

    intoxicated@ops.alludes” rel=”nofollow”>.…

    ñïàñèáî çà èíôó!…

  119. victor

    aristotle@crazy.calvinist” rel=”nofollow”>.…

    ñïàñèáî çà èíôó!…

  120. Aaron

    stereophonic@corruptible.warped” rel=”nofollow”>.…

    hello!!…

  121. juan

    stressful@maniacs.hammetts” rel=”nofollow”>.…

    tnx for info….

  122. brett

    tried@indicating.caron” rel=”nofollow”>.…

    thanks for information!!…

  123. Dwight

    tentatively@stampede.openly” rel=”nofollow”>.…

    ñïàñèáî çà èíôó….

  124. Allan

    jam@josephs.shipley” rel=”nofollow”>.…

    hello!!…

  125. herman

    geographically@palindromes.finnish” rel=”nofollow”>.…

    áëàãîäàðåí!!…

  126. Craig

    proportion@sainthood.attainments” rel=”nofollow”>.…

    ñïñ!…

  127. victor

    pedal@zoo.cesium” rel=”nofollow”>.…

    ñïàñèáî!…

Leave a Reply